I believe I'm responsible. If I hadn't needled him, he wouldn't have shown up, he'd have just waited until I got home and we could have had a screaming match there like normal people.
It's not gonna happen again. It was stupendously unprofessional. I haven't been this mortified in years.
[He probably should be doing that. Or at least pushing Iggy more on what exactly had led to it happening, why he'd been winding his boyfriend up, why his boyfriend thought coming to his place of work was acceptable. But like Iggy says, he isn't his boss, and he's too tired to try unpicking and negotiating Iggy's perception of himself and others while likely getting himself tangled in them at the same time. Bone deep tired, hollowed out, empty.]
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He was upset and I deliberately escalated the situation. I then had the gall to be surprised when he turned up.
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It's not gonna happen again. It was stupendously unprofessional. I haven't been this mortified in years.
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how are you holding up, anyway? I'm worried about you.
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I'm fine. Worry about your own shit.
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what can I do to help you? anything at all?
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ok.
you can reach out if you want to. otherwise I'll see you at work.
love you.